Finding friends was as effortless as breathing when we were kids-they slid into the seat next to us in class or lived across the street. Making...
more Finding friends was as effortless as breathing when we were kids-they slid into the seat next to us in class or lived across the street. Making friends as adults, however, can challenge even the most gregarious of women. They're shocked to discover how hard it is and secretly fear they're the only ones having a problem. But they're not. For many midlife women today, traditional social ties have been frayed or torn by such common life-changing shifts as: lMoving to a new town lLeaving a communal office to start a home-based business lBecoming an at-home mom lBeing divorced or widowed The Friendship Crisis provides women with a pathway out of isolation and into the warm embrace of friendship. Written in a lively, conversational style, it brings together the author's own experiences, profiles of women who managed to forge satisfying new connections at various stages of life, and the insights of psychologists and other relationship experts. In candid, resonant stories, women describe the strategies they used to overcome shyness and fear and take the first steps toward building a friendship. Included are tips for turning casual ties into lasting bonds and innovative ways to meet people with similar interests or needs. Paul also discusses friendship-boosters and -busters, how to be an enthusiastic friend without being overly aggressive or needy, accepting a pal's limitations, healing conflicts, and establishing a rhythm both friends find satisfying and comfortable. Recent research has proven the strong links between intimate friendships and mental and physical health. Filled with practical ideas and confidence-building advice, The Friendship Crisis will be the start of a lot of beautiful friendships.
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